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Under what circumstances would you forgive someone unconditionally?

asked by WHITESUNSHINE87 on August 12, 2017

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Yes.
But I love intelligently. If they demonstrate that they are (dishonest, untrustworthy, etc) then I take note. I love them, but trust is earned. I don't make a big deal of it, just take note who they are right now and what kind of person they are trying to be when no-one is looking.
Forgiveness is a separate issue. It means I don't hold resentment, I don't keep bringing it up.

If I have, say, breached someone's trust, forgiveness is a beautiful gift. But it's my responsibility to demonstrate that in the future they can trust me.
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Last Reply by WHITESUNSHINE87 2 days ago

You are right.Trust must be earned.So,the one who does something untrustworthy must do something to earn back the trust.

I think I might be able to love my son enough to forgive him unconditionally. I've been hurt by him in the past, and was always able to forgive him. I love my father so much that even though I never forget how he hurt me, I make excuses for him. And I love God so much that I have never blamed Him for the misfortunes of life or the cruelty of nature...not one bit.
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Last Reply by WHITESUNSHINE87 2 days ago

I readily forgive my family but I often ask God why people have to suffer?:)

Unconditional Love.
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